The temptation to brag about one’s self when in the presence of ladies can sometimes be unimaginable.
There are tonnes of advantages of talking less when you are on a date with a girl
1 – You will appear more mysterious and charming. The more you let her talk, the less she will know about you. This will make her wonder about you when you’re not around therefore increasing interest levels.
2 – The more you say, the more chance you have of saying something stupid.
3 – The less you say, the more valuable everything you DO say will be perceived. (Rarity is perceived as being valuable.)
4 – You will give her the chance to express herself, and talk about her day. Two things women love to do
5 – You won’t appear desperate or insecure. People who brag and talk all the time are constantly trying to get attention and make people approve of them. By talking less, you will appear more cool, confident, and in control!
6 – The less you say, the less you will have to worry about figuring out something to say.
And remember, when you do say something, it should be brief and to the point. Or better still, it could be simple feedback concerning something she has just said to you.
The key is to keep the conversation on her. Only then will you truly know how to deal with her.
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