Strictly for Guys

A guy should always hold the ace in his hands, leave something for the woman’s imagination, let her be curious. Most men are alike and women know that, curiousity is your best weapon

The best step in increasing a woman’s attraction for you is by getting her to miss you. It’s basic economics; scarcity, demand and supply. But for this to work, you must make sure the time she spends with you is amazing and possible the most fun she can have with anyone.
Take her to places she has never been, show her things she doesn’t know. Create a memory in her mind that makes her smile to herself at night before she sleeps.

Never make her your first priority in your life. Always make her second to something, might be your family, career, friends or whatever; just give her a small hope showing that she could still win that #1 spot.

You must make her work for the fun time she spends with you, this makes her value you. It shouldn’t be one-sided, make her spend money on you, do you favours. When she does things for you it will justify her own feelings for you and allow them to grow. This is excellent advice no matter what stage of the relationship you are in.

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I met a woman a long time ago. She was beautiful, intelligent, funny, everything.

I was doing everything right in the beginning, maintaining a little mystery and only giving a little information at a time. I could tell her interest level was high. We had this amazing incredible chemistry.

As we talked more and more, though, she was constantly asking me to open up and share my thoughts and feelings, saying nothing in my mind was too big or too small to tell her, don’t hold back, etc.

Since she seemed trustworthy, and I liked her, I started to believe her.

They have a saying in the military: “Loose lips sink ships” (referring to people letting out sensitive information to the point where the enemy knows enough to sink our naval ships). It’s true in the military and it’s true in romance.

I started to tell her everything, what I liked about her, then how I felt about her, etc. She was open with me as well but I was scaring her off. My loose lips, my letting out too much, was sinking the ship of possibilities with us.

We talked more and more deeply to the point where we were having deep relationship talks which started causing relationship misunderstandings and relationship issues, and WE WEREN’T EVEN IN A RELATIONSHIP!

All of this made things way more difficult than it should have been, and of course disaster followed.

Guys, we all know the rules. There are stages for what you can talk about with a woman and when. They exist to protect you and to protect your possibilities with women.

You can’t break the rules and get away with it. Please for the sake of yourself, learn the rules and play by the rules.

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A common complain I hear from guys these days is about how a girl comes over to spend the night at his place but she isn’t willing to get down with him. Ladies, it’s common knowledge that we guys are dogs, I mean how is it possible to give a dog a bone and expect it not to eat it??? If you have no intentions of getting down with a guy, then stay the hell away from his bedroom at night. Rape is wrong but please don’t instigate it and then later go home crying “he raped me” #Justsaying