7 Reasons to Shut Up When Talking to a Woman

The temptation to brag about one’s self when in the presence of ladies can sometimes be unimaginable.
There are tonnes of advantages of talking less when you are on a date with a girl

1 – You will appear more mysterious and charming. The more you let her talk, the less she will know about you. This will make her wonder about you when you’re not around therefore increasing interest levels.

2 – The more you say, the more chance you have of saying something stupid.

3 – The less you say, the more valuable everything you DO say will be perceived. (Rarity is perceived as being valuable.)

4 – You will give her the chance to express herself, and talk about her day. Two things women love to do

5 – You won’t appear desperate or insecure. People who brag and talk all the time are constantly trying to get attention and make people approve of them. By talking less, you will appear more cool, confident, and in control!

6 – The less you say, the less you will have to worry about figuring out something to say.

And remember, when you do say something, it should be brief and to the point. Or better still, it could be simple feedback concerning something she has just said to you.

The key is to keep the conversation on her. Only then will you truly know how to deal with her.

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Ladies first!!!

Being exclusive with a lady means both of you aren’t allowed to date or have sex with other people, its basically like a contract.

Never make the mistake of asking a women to become exclusive. It’s her job not yours, she must bring it up first.

You are probably wondering why and its simple

If a woman hasn’t taken the initiative to ask you, then it simply means she is still open to seeing others guys. It means she still has DOUBTS about you. If she’s madly head over heels crazy about you, then she wouldn’t want you seeing other women.
Women asking for exclusivity is like a “marriage proposal.” She is affirming and laying the building blocks for true intimacy. She wants something that’s going to last. It is the ULTIMATE test of interest, guys. She is “proposing.”

But on the other hand, if you ask first, you will never know her true interest level. Why didn’t she bring it up? How come she is still letting you see others? Why isn’t she CLOSING her options? Is she seeing someone else?

Give it a thought!!!

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Mistakes men make

Let’s say to talk to a girl for the first time, shortly after both of you just met. And you are trying to fix an ideal date for both of you to hook up.
In that situation, no matter how things are going, never make the mistake of saying the words: “Well, just give me a call and let me know….”


You NEVER want to be in a position of having to wait for a woman’s call or leaving the aces in her hand. This strategy never works for several reasons.

First, most girls never call unless they are already into you which is usually impossible at the early stages of your interactions with them. They just have too much ego to call and seek you out even if they are interested.

Second, if you decide to call when you don’t hear from a girl, you are going to feel stupid because… you asked her to call earlier.

So, if a woman is uncertain about when she is available, instead of saying, “Call me and let me know” tell her “OK, I will call you by the end of the week and see if you figured your schedule out a little better.”

Keep the power and control to yourself. You will be much better off and you will come across as a more attractive and confident guy.

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